Blogging 101: Two Girl’s Blogging Basics~Things I wish I knew about starting a blog

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Hello bloggers!! This post is for you! Dana from This Silly Girl’s Life and I have decided to take our combined knowledge and experience of blogging and share them with you guys in our new series Blogging 101: Two Girl’s Blogging Basics.  In this series we will share with you our personal experiences with blogging and share with you our successes, our failures, incomes we have made, little tips and tricks we have discovered and I am most excited to work on our Blogging On a Budget post where we will share all our tips on how to blog successfully without breaking the bank!

So for our first week’s post we decided to share with you things we wish we knew when first starting a blog.  We hope this series is helpful to you, can help you learn so do’s and don’ts and provide you a few laughs :)

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1.  Blogging is a time suck, but a fun one!!  Blogging doesn’t come easy, it is tough work but you definitely get out of it what you put in.  Some bloggers might post a recipe every other week, pin it and wonder why their page views don’t go up.  You have to post often and quality post and promote the crap out of those posts to get your views to budge.

2. Your first photos suck.  I think at least when your photographing food your first few food photos most likely suck, mine did and it has taken forever to for me to learn how to take better photos and they still sometimes suck.  Sometimes I don’t feel like having dinner ready at 4 in the afternoon just so I can take a pic with natural lighting.  So I do sometimes still take crappy pictures, sorry.

Earlier photo-
Bad lighting, used flash, too close, bleh! What was I thinking!!


Photo from this week
Much better!

Creamcicle Poke Cake

3. Start at  I know there are a lot of bloggers that use Blogger as a platform but I see so many everyday making the switch to and at first I avoided it all by using as my platform, then switching to Squarespace before finally going to WordPress.  So my advice is avoid that drama and just start at

4. Linky parties, Linky parties, Linky parties.  You need them, trust me.  Without linky parties my page views for the entire month of March was 455.  With Linky parties so far for the month of July my page views are 34,000.  That is a massive jump!  So yes linky parties were something I definitely wish I knew of from the get go.  You can find a great directory of parties to link up to at my Linky Party Directory.

5.  You need social media! The same day you start your blog start your social media for it, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Google Plus and Instagram are the big ones.  I failed to start a Google Plus account until late in the game and that does come back to bite me in the butt sometimes.

6.  You don’t have to go at it alone.  Blogging alone blow.  You need to find yourself a good blogging friend.  One to motivate you on the days you just aren’t feeling it anymore, one who is not afraid to tell you your picture of chili looks like dog food, someone to host giveaways with, go to conventions with, ask their opinion of sketchy emails from people wanting to post on your site about cigars or whatever other weird offers you get.  Basically this person becomes your blogging backbone and in return you become theirs.   Sometimes it is not just one person it can be a whole group of bloggers who support each other.  You learn from them, they learn from you. But I cannot imagine going back to blogging with my blogging backbone Dana!  So I highly suggest reaching out to other bloggers, blogging groups and don’t go at it alone.

7.  You will do anything to get the best picture for your post.  Any picture of Dean I need for my posts costs me an arm and a leg!  “Dean please turn around” “Please look at mommy”  “You can have ice cream if you look at me and smile!”  “Fine!!  I will get you new legos if I can just take this one picture!!!!!”

8.  Recognition takes forever. It will take forever to get some kind of recognition, people commenting, people pinning, people visiting.  It doesn’t happen overnight and at points you will want to throw in the towel but if you keep pushing you will get the views and fans you are looking for :)

Dana has more for you over at her blog on this, so go read the rest of the post there to see her 12 Things I Did Not Think Would Happen When I Started Blogging.


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    1. A few of the main reasons I chose WordPress was because I felt it was more popular meaning more people knew how to work with it therefore there would more assistance when I needed it, more tips and tricks and tutorials when I needed. I also chose WordPress because of all the plugins that just make my life x10 easier. And I find it a cinch to work with and was very happy I made the switch :)

  1. I wish I had come across a post like this when I first started! So many helpful tips. Awesome job! I’m off to read Dana’s next :) By the way, your pinterest button isn’t working right. There is no picture or description ;)

    1. Thanks!!! And thanks for the heads-up on the Pinterest button, I got it fixed, no telling how long it’s been down :/ lol

  2. Thank you so much for your advice. I just started blogging about 2 weeks ago and I love it. I don’t have much traffic but I’m going to keep pressing on. I need to find myself a good blogging buddy. Again, thank you for taking the time to share your experience!

    1. We are going to do a post on how and where we get out traffic which should help you out some. Your recipes look great and I love all the pictures you take of the process!

  3. Lol. I agree about the food pictures! It’s the hardest thing and many times the family is starving and want to eat and I am saying “let me just good one good picture!” Thank goodness for picmonkey or my food photos would be even worse:)


  4. I totally agree. My photos are slowly getting better and I too recognize that some of my photos still suck, but I’m okay with that. I would add when you start a blog you don’t really know what your voice/style will be. I’ve been blogging for a little while now and I feel like now I’m starting to get into a look and rhythm.

  5. Thank you so much for this post! I’ve just started blogging and these tips are very helpful! I’ll be following along throughout this series for sure :)

  6. Amen to all of the above :) This is a fabulous list, especially about social media. As a lady who has gotten back on the blogging train, these are awesome things for me to remember. Thanks for sharing! PS: Found you through Wonderful Wednesdays :)

  7. Wonderful tips, I have been wanting to switch to WP for a while. Too scared, :) Thanks for joining Inspiration in Progress.

  8. Thank you so much for sharing at Brag About It this week! Great post with some really good pointers for those starting out ~ and for more seasoned bloggers, too. So true about the pictures, lol!
    ~ Megin of VMG206

  9. Thanks for the awesome advice! It’s been one month since I started my blog and so far I have zero subscribers lol. I can definitely relate to the “throw in the towel” feelings but like you say, keep pushing. Have a wonderful weekend!

  10. Really couldn’t have said it better and I moved to pretty quickly into the game, but you are right it is the best place to start out. Thank you for sharing though and wonderful for new and even seasoned bloggers, too!

  11. I wish I had started at wordpress! Now I have to go through the whole migration someday. So sad. Thanks for linking up with our Ladies Only Blog Share Link Party. This is great!

  12. Thanks for linking up with us on the Ladies Only Blog Share. I had no idea you could get that sort of traffic with link parties! Of course I do them, but I haven’t seen a huge increase in my traffic. I do visit people though on each. I guess I need to look more closely at this! Thanks for the advice!

  13. Thanks so much for posting this! I really appreciate it…I am a fairly new blogger with extremely low views and this is helpful! I am terrible at taking pictures ;)

  14. Some great tips here, especially the linky party list. I have been trying to find some in my niche (stationery, letter writing, mail art) so I am hoping to explore your list for this and more. Speaking of parties, I found you via LOBS. You can find me over at http://www.ritewhileucan.comThanks for sharing.

  15. I agree about WordPress plugins. Although there are a lot of premade widgets, having the option to upload plug-ins does wonders for one’s blog. And my family is coming to grips with the fact that I’m going to take photos of all the food at home and at restaurants!

  16. Hey there! Love this post! super helpful tips! :) Anyway,just wanted you to know that you’re being featured this Saturday on the Pin It Saturday Party on Hope you have a great week!

  17. I’m brand new to blogging and this list was so informative; especially the part about link parties! I’m about to check out Dana’s as well, but I wanted to stop and thank you for sharing this!


  18. I am so glad that I found your series. Thank you so much for the information. I am in the process of starting a new blog and I need all of the help I can get!

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